MAKE LOVE, NOT WAR

Perhaps writing about the best Holiday gift of Time lends itself to a follow up of an even larger element in my own personal seasonal stress of being a minority in this country who does not celebrate Christmas. 

This year especially our political climate set the 'War Against Christmas' as an issue.  A country who prides itself for a founding principle of religious freedom has an agenda to take back Christmas.  Nobody took it away but rather over the years has said why not be all inclusive.  

Why does it hurt Christianity to recognize Christmas is not threatened by other religions who have their own seasonal cultural practices?  We don't have to equate holidays's significance just recognize people celebrate different holidays for different reasons. Chinese New Year is really in February this year and is a celebration of the beginning of spring, not winter. Kwanzaa falls on December 26th - January 1st and is a celebration of West African cultural heritage and traditional values. Chanuka, a minor jewish holiday falls on a different date each year as it follows the lunar calendar and marks the rededication of the Temple and a fight for religious freedom.

In fact, perhaps it's a good time to remember Jesus was jewish and the lessons he taught are Abrahamic. This translates to Muslims, Jews and Christians have a lot more in common than differences. 

Yet, what an uproar about public schools and institutions substituting the once traditionally called 'Christmas' programs / parties name with 'Holiday'.  If you know for sure someone is Christian, it's a no brainer to wish them a Merry Christmas. 

Cultural sensitivity does not mean the Christian faith is under attack. Isn't love for mankind the most important lesson to share? Why the hostility for a reminder to respect others and their beliefs?

Okay, let me close today's entry with two lovely gifts we received this past week.  All my life my parents invited non Jews to share our holiday celebrations but this was the first time in Natureman's and my 60+ years we have ever been invited to share Christmas dinner. It was heartwarming to break bread with a table full of Catholics and a Catholic prayer and then be asked to add a Hebrew blessing.  Thankful for the gift of inclusivity.

The other gift was another totally unexpected present. A friend who has heard me comment about the lack of decorations for Chanuka made me a special Chanuka decoration of a beautiful illuminated glass block wrapped with a metallic silver bow. Thankful for the light of recognition. 

May we continue to be enlightened and share the gift of love and understanding. Make love, not war.