Monday, October 14, 2024

MONDAY MUSINGS: A DAY OF AtONEMENt & YES, GRIEVING

Religion serves many purposes. While there are historical answers as to why we perform certain rituals, ultimately, it's up to the individual which ones to embrace. 

In my home I light a Yizkor candle in memory of my parents and other relatives that have preceded them since they no longer can... 

This past Saturday, Yom Kippur, the day of Atonement, I was invited to light one the Temple's seven candles in my Dad's memory since this is the one-year anniversary of his passing.


It truly was a blessing for my presence at this particular Yizkor, the memorial service, at Temple as the service's music in addition to its pianist and vocalists was accompanied by string quartet of Symphony members. The music went straight to one's soul.  

This afternoon service's purpose is to praise the Almighty to tighten the souls of those who have passed to past generations and for us to remember and honor them.

We were reminded by the Rabbi in his sermon re: Grieving Personal  Loss Amidst a Grieving Community. What struck a chord with me was the terminology "disenfranchised grief" which our Jewish worldwide community is experiencing after October 7th 2023. This collective grief is not recognized as mourners since we are not 'first degree' relatives. Fascinating subject matter re: the Circles of Bereavement.

I have attached the link for those who might want to hear more...

Grieving Personal Loss Amidst a Grieving Community


May we all find peace in both our own hearts and the hearts of others the world over in this coming year of 5785...




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