Monday, May 13, 2024

MONDAY MUSINGS: DAYS OF REMEMBRANCE

In our crazy world it is up to us, the living, to remember those who have passed and validate their existence by carrying on their work to make this world a better place. 

In Israel on this special day, daily life really changes, not just the blaring sirens when traffic stops at midday to mark this Day of Remembrance. Special programming, closed stores, it isn't business as usual. 

Yesterday, Sunday, was not only a local funeral of a member in our Jewish community but also later on in the day a service for Yom Ha'Zikaron Israel's Day of Remembrance specifically commemorating the fallen Israelis on October 7th and since. 

Walking into the sanctuary photos  of the recent fallen covered stairs, partition railings and individual seats. Putting a face to those numbers which are continuing to grow...





On my chair was the photo of Sargent First Class Ben Zussman, z"l. Each soldier writes a letter which is written as their military service begins in case their life is taken... Fate had it that it was  Ben's letter was to be one of 2 chosen to be read:


May Ben's memory and all the deceased be for a blessing... May our world find a peaceful way to coexist...

Friday, May 10, 2024

FOTO FRIDAY:'HANGRY

 


FOTO FRIDAY : The new kids on the block are 'hangry'.





TBT: A GOOD RETURN POLICY

 TBT:15 years ago Natureman returned from the dump with a set of bamboo porch furniture with 4 rattan seat chairs. Their finish was gone and one of the chairs was weak. But Natureman guaranteed me even I didn't want them , the dump had a 'good return' policy. 



Each year since I have resprayed them and the set minus one chair made the move with me 3 years ago to Arkansas.

( If my youngest bonus son is reading this, I am not pointing a finger at the demise of the fourth weakened chair after a boys get together ...but it would have been nice to have to have let us know of its truly weakened state LOL)


Even with the use of pillows the rattan cane had long since been replaced with plywood and the chairs were becoming very rickety. I was sitting out on the front porch on a sunny winter day speaking on the phone with my brother when I heard a crack and I fell through the rotted plywood. 

Now I wish I had that picture! I told my brother to not hang up because if my V-shaped body couldn't pull myself out without being punctured by the rusty nails, he needed to high tail it over to extricate me... What a sight it would have been to the next walker passing by  hearing me calling  'HELP'.

I did manage to hand pull the chair apart and escape without injury. I decided to also dismantle another weakened chair so nobody else would experience this embarrassment.

I have one chair left. It's a bit too far to return it to the dump with their 'good return' policy or add it to the recycling trash but I am gifting it this weekend to a hanging plant. Its weight is a lot less than its owner...

Wednesday, May 8, 2024

MIDWEEK MUSINGS: REMEMBERING FOR TOMORROW

Monday evening members from 3 different congregations gathered for an evening program sponsored by the Jewish Federation of Arkansas and the 3 Jewish places of worship with an observance of Lives Lost and Voices of the Second Generation.


Eight second generation Holocaust survivors lit a Yizkor candle in memory of their family members who didn't survive the Holocaust in Hungary, Poland, Belarus, Romania, Ukraine and Germany.

Three clergy also led 3 prayers amidst poems, readings and a short presentation of DorsGeneration by the new director of the Federation called The Voices of the Second Generation, Their Objects: Their Stories which she has been working with for the last 2 years.

The 6 objects shared with us included: a sampler

A Hanukiah (candelabra  for Chanuka)




a doll and 



and letters...


It's important to remember what atrocities can happen due to hatred...


 


Tuesday, May 7, 2024

TUESDAY TUNES: WHERE IS THE LOVE?

Here's a tune you might have forgotten. So for your TUESDAY TUNES here's The Black Eyed Peas asking a very good question...WHERE IS THE LOVE?










Monday, May 6, 2024

MONDAY MUSiNGS: OCTOBER 7th & THOSE AFFECTED

 I don't know about you, but sometimes one needs time to digest after a presentation. Such was the case last Wednesday after an Israeli guest speaker shared how her life has been affected by what transpired last October 7th. You could have heard a pin drop during the hour as the guest speaker shared her raw story. Tears flowed...

Our speaker first explained why she calls herself a 'Jewish' Israeli as many Israelis are secular and she learned about Judaism when she visited the United States in her 20's. After an assignment to a Jewish summer camp, she returned to Israel yearning that same camp feeling. She found a good fit at a kibbutz near Tel Aviv. She still lives there with her husband and now 3 children. It was one of the kibbutzes targeted on October 7th.

Her name / the name of her kibbutz near Tel Aviv are not what is important but the events she emotionally relayed are re: her friends,  family, and community along with other affected kibbutzim including her elementary students she had taught for four consecutive years. 

On last October 7th her phone lit up with red alerts with increased  frequency and urgency along with her husband's phone. The ironic part was she and her family were visiting the U.S. at the time and not in Israel nor on their kibbutz...

Futile attempts followed to communicate with her students and kibbutzniks. She set up a group chat for her students. Pieces of information were gathered by texting, videos, phone calls and eventually return trips to their Israeli kibbutz filled in the hours, days, weeks and months that followed...

Hamas had infiltrated her kibbutz at 3 different points: one at the main entrance where Hamas set a fire at a factory to force workers outside. (Fortunately, that plan didn't come to fruition as the workers remained safe inside), the second where the animals are housed (where her eldest child worked) and the third, 5 houses down from their home,

Hamas arrived knowing who lived where and what jobs they held on the kibbutz. The first responders were the first targeted.

 Horrifying reports followed with acts of kidnapping, torture, rape and killing. Hamas infiltrators had brought  their own children with them  and  these kids were seen riding around the kibbutz on the kibbutz children's bikes as the atrocities occurred. 

Even though initially she avoided videos, she yearned for more information.  Eventually she saw a video with one of her students with bound hands on the floor.( He was kidnapped and has since been returned).  Family members and friends suffered different fates, some still are being held hostage / others are never coming home.

Passover was different this year for our speaker and her kibbutz as well as many other tables with the narrative of the story of the Exodus and slavery, What will the future hold ?

October 7th  affected more than Israelis as Jews worldwide are experiencing a resurgence of anti-Semitism.., a hot bed with hatred preventing Peace any time soon.  Can a two state plan ever be achieved? Only time will tell... 


Friday, May 3, 2024

FOTO FRIDAY: RAIN BRINGS THE FUNGI

 


FOTO FRIDAY: What the rains have wrought...

Make 'room' for finding these in your yards / on your walks...